In our last study, we saw how the Lord promised Abram and his descendants the land of Canaan. The Lord had told him to go there, and that He would bless him, and that in him all the nations of the earth would be blessed. Then Abram took his family into Egypt because of a famine in the land of Canaan. We saw how Abram had his wife lie by saying that she was his sister out of fear the men of Egypt would kill him for her sake. When Pharoah found out what had happened, he rebuked Abram for what he had done, and he sent him away with much livestock, menservants, and maidservants.
In chapter 13, Abram with his family and all that he had, left Egypt to go back to the land of Canaan, stopping in the South (Negev) for a time. He was very rich in livestock, silver, and gold, much of which he had acquired in Egypt. He later moved further north to Bethel, where he had made an altar at the first, and called on the name of the Lord there. While in the land of Canaan, he was in the habit of worshiping the Lord, but there was no mention of it while in Egypt. For certain, he was in disobedience in the matter relating to his wife, but his absence of building altars to the Lord may be an indicator the entire trip was outside of God’s will for him. The Lord is able to take care of us wherever we are, so we should be careful in making decisions based on fear or upon problems we do not see a solution to. On the other hand, wanting to feed your family is a noble and righteous thing to do, so you can understand why Abram would have gone into Egypt. I think it really comes down to seeking the Lord’s will for our circumstances. Whatever the case, Abram was going back to that place of fellowship and worship with the Lord. Animal sacrifice was often made for sins, so it could be Abram was also repenting from what took place in Egypt.
Lot also went with Abram, and he was very rich as well. Their substance was so great that the land was not able to support both of them. As a result, a strife arose between their herdsman, and we are told that the Canaanite and the Perizzite lived in the land. It could be that Abram, knowing that nonbelievers were watching this dispute, decided it would be better to part ways rather than fighting over whose land it was.
Here we see Abram take the high ground: he could have chosen the best of the land and given Lot the rest, but he gave Lot first pick. Lot, on the other hand, saw how the plain of Jordan was well watered, even as the Garden of Eden, and he chose to dwell there. It is here where we begin to gain some insight into Lot’s character. He was more concerned with seeking wealth and prosperity, and chose the cities of the plain, pitching his tent toward or as far as Sodom (he was on the outskirts of town). The Scriptures tell us here that the men of Sodom were very wicked before the Lord, so Lot chose to dwell near wickedness in order to be more well off. This will prove to be a disastrous move for Lot and his family in the long-run. He was also placing himself ahead of Abram, someone who had taken care of and been sort of a father-figure to him.
As Chuck Smith duly points out, this was probably a difficult experience for Abram. They had traveled together for several decades, and he loved Lot like a son. Now Lot and his family were leaving, and it was probably hard to watch them go. I’m sure it was made worse by the fact that Abram knew Lot was not making a good choice for himself and his family (you get that sick feeling in the pit of your stomach).
I also wonder if Abram was beginning to feel like the promises the Lord gave him would never come to pass? Lot and his family were moving on to “bigger and better things,” and he was still stuck waiting. Even though he knew Lot was making a bad decision, those emotions can still be there regardless.
It was here that the Lord spoke again to Abram, probably as a means of comfort and reassurance. As we previously discussed, from the mountain peak where Abram had built his altar between Bethel and Ai, he would be able to see the entire land of Israel. He told Abram to look every direction, and as far as his eyes could see, He was going to give the land to him and his descendants, and this included the land that Lot took. This promise was to be forever. This was not a promise that would be conditioned upon their obedience, but upon the promise and faithfulness of God. The Lord promised to number Abram’s descendants as the dust of the earth, in other words, they will not be able to be numbered. The Lord told him to walk through the length and breadth of the land, for He would give it to him. Abram then moved near the Terebinth trees of Mamre, which were in Hebron. Hebron was about 20 miles or so south of Jerusalem, south of the valley of Eshcol. There he built another altar unto the Lord.
In summary, are we like Lot who was primarily concerned with earthly riches, or are we like Abram who was primarily concerned with his walk with the Lord and placing others first? We need to remember it is the Lord who gives us power to get wealth (Deut 8:18), but at the same time, we are not to set our hearts on it. Proverbs says, “Labour not to be rich: cease from thine own wisdom. Wilt thou set thine eyes upon that which is not? for riches certainly make themselves wings; they fly away as an eagle toward heaven.” (23:4-5) Paul wrote to Timothy (1 Tim 6:6-10), “Now godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out. And having food and clothing, with these we shall be content. But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and harmful lusts which drown men in destruction and perdition. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil, for which some have strayed from the faith in their greediness, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.” As we will see, Lot sold himself short: Oh, he had his riches and enjoyed them for a time, but when the Lord would bring judgment on Sodom and Gomorrah, they would all be gone. If we set our heart on the Lord however, He is able to give us all the earthly riches we need, and more importantly and more lasting, the riches of the Kingdom of God.
In his book “The Pursuit of God,” A.W. Tozer describes Abraham after he was told to offer up his son, Isaac, as having everything, but possessing nothing. Another way of putting it is that Abram owned lots of earthly goods, but they didn’t own him. Abram was a rich man after coming out of Egypt, but he did not set his heart on them. This is what allowed him to trust God and let Lot take his pick of where he wanted to go. In the following chapter, we will see Abram go to the rescue when Lot gets caught up in a battle between rivaling nations, as well as an introduction to an interesting character who, although does not receive a lot of ink, is a key figure throughout the rest of the Scriptures. So, your homework for next week is to read Genesis 14.