If you would ask them, most people would answer that they want to live a blessed life. The question is then, how does one go about living a life that is blessed? I think the first Chapter of the book of Psalms gives us some definite insights. It states:
“Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night. And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper. The ungodly are not so: but are like the chaff which the wind driveth away. Therefore the ungodly shall not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the congregation of the righteous. For the LORD knoweth the way of the righteous: but the way of the ungodly shall perish.”
The word “blessed” here means How happy, (how happy is the man). Interesting that the Lord wants us to be happy in life: Being a Christian doesn’t mean being somber, depressed, and in a bad mood all the time. He wants us to fully enjoy life.
When a former pastor of ours was teaching through the book of Psalms, one of the things he pointed out in Psalm 1 is that it starts out by saying the man is blessed who does not do certain things. There are both positive and negative commands in the Scriptures: We may not always like the negative commands, but The Lord begins here by saying we must not do certain things to enjoy blessing.
The first thing the Lord tells us is, “Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly”. Counsel is not the giving of instruction, say for example, in teaching someone how to change the oil in his car, otherwise, we would not be able to go to school, work, or anything in which we would learn something unless they were Christians. Counsel is the giving of advice, and by its nature, involves discerning the difference between right and wrong or wisdom and foolishness. The ungodly, in the most basic sense, are nonbelievers, and are contrasted with the righteous, believers who are submitted to the word of God. However, we do need to use caution, for sometimes this bad counsel can come from believers who are not submitted to the word of God themselves or those who merely profess to be believers. This can be more dangerous, since we have a tendency to trust people more who sound spiritual. Many people (believers included) seek advice from worldly sources such as an unsaved co-worker, college professor or humanistic psychologist instead of finding guidance through the Scriptures. They then wonder why things do not turn out as they had hoped. The Bible contains answers to all the important questions in life that we need. Therefore, our primary source for counsel/advice should come from God’s Word and the Holy Spirit who teaches them to us. The Psalmist wrote, “Thy testimonies also are my delight and my counselors.” (Psalm 119:24) Jesus told His disciples, “But the Comforter (Counselor), which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you.” (John 14:26)
Our second source of counsel should be from those individuals who hold God’s Word in high esteem. It’s not that a nonbeliever always will give bad advice, but their entire outlook on life is different. This will have an overall effect on their world view, and consequently on the advice they will give. If you or I am receiving counsel from someone who is not a believer and not using the Scriptures as the foundation of the advice they are giving us, we need to stop listening to them. Solomon wrote, “Cease, my son, to hear the instruction that causeth to err from the words of knowledge.” (Proverbs 19:27) When it involves matters of right and wrong or wisdom and foolishness, we need to seek advice from those who are believers, and will use the Scriptures as their primary source of direction.
The next step after walking in the counsel of the ungodly is to stand in the way of sinners. At this point the person is no longer just following bad advice from an ungodly person, but they are standing with them. This implies a fellowship taking place. Instead of surrounding themselves with godly persons who love the Lord, they surround themselves with sinners as their close circle of friends. When you or I are walking in sin, we naturally do not want to hang out with those who are doing right because their doing right shines light on our sins. People who do not want to walk in godly counsel will often seek the person(s) that will tell them the thing they want to hear, as if to attempt to justify their behavior. Unfortunately, this only serves to take them down a path leading them further away from the Lord, and will only lead to more compromise on what they know to be right. As we read in Romans 1, they become futile in their thoughts, and their foolish hearts are darkened. They become more hardened to the conviction of their sin, and as a result do not see the need to accept the Gospel. Almost synonymous with hardness of heart is unbelief. They refuse to believe the truths found in the Scriptures, and the Lord is far from their thoughts. This can only lead to more foolishness, since at the heart of foolishness is unbelief. For a believer, they also become hardened to the conviction of the Holy Spirit, and will end up in a backslidden state. The apostle Paul wrote, “Be not deceived: evil communications (company) corrupt good manners.” (1 Corinthians 15:33) So, as we can see, it is important that our close circle of friends are believers who want to obey the word of God.
Close kin to being foolish is being scornful. A fool rejects biblical truth, while a scorner both rejects it and mocks it. He also mocks at anyone that attempts to live their lives according to the Truth. The third part of verse 1 states that the person sits in the seat of the scornful. This is speaking to sitting in the seat of judgment. This is not true or righteous judgment, but a hatred and condemnation for those who seek to do what is right. They have now become scornful, and seek to place judgment on those who do not follow in the same path as they. Even when they want to get wisdom, they are unable to obtain it. Proverbs says, “A scorner seeketh wisdom, and findeth it not: but knowledge is easy unto him that understandeth.” (Proverbs 14:6) The book of Proverbs has a lot to say about the scornful man, and when a person reaches this point there is no reasoning with them. Many times, the only thing that can be done to them is to punish them. If they continue in this state, they can only expect to face the wrath of God on judgment day. When a believer becomes scornful, they will often find themselves in a state of discipline from the Lord.
Notice how this is a natural progression that a person follows: You first walk with someone, when you arrive at your destination you stop/stand still, and then you sit down. The walking in ungodly counsel leads to the standing with/fellowshipping with sinners, and the standing with sinners leads to the sitting in the scornful seat with them. We begin investing time and emotion into these relationships, and do not want to give them up.
In contrast, if a believer does not walk down the path of the ungodly, and delights in the Lord’s Word, He promises blessing. Verse 2 says that the man delights in the law of the Lord, and meditates on it day and night. The Word meditate means that he is chewing on it, like a cow that chews the cud. Moses stated the following in Deuteronomy: “these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.” (Deuteronomy 6:6-7) The Lord and His Word should constantly be on a believer’s mind and heart. If they are constantly renewing their minds with God’s Word, it becomes more and more difficult to think on worldly things. It is also important to study all of God’s Word. The apostle Paul told the Ephesian elders, “For I have not shunned to declare unto you all the counsel of God.” (Acts 20:28) Studying the whole counsel of God’s Word helps believers compare Scripture with Scripture, so that they do not take it out of context. Studying the entire Bible, comparing Scripture with Scripture, is one of the best protections against false teaching. If you have never read through the whole Bible, I would strongly encourage you to do so. You can read through the whole Bible in a year if you read three chapters a day, and five on Sundays. Once you have finished, start over and read through it again. This is by no means the only way to read and study the Bible, but I cannot think of a better way for new believers or believers who are not familiar with the word to know the whole Counsel of the Scriptures.
Not only is it important to study and know God’s word, but believers need to obey what it says. Jesus told His disciples, “If ye love me, keep my commandments” (John 14:15), and “If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love; even as I have kept my Father's commandments, and abide in his love (John 15:10). James says, “But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves. For if any be a hearer of the word, and not a doer, he is like unto a man beholding his natural face in a glass: For he beholdeth himself, and goeth his way, and straightway forgetteth what manner of man he was. But whoso looketh into the perfect law of liberty, and continueth therein, he being not a forgetful hearer, but a doer of the work, this man shall be blessed in his deed” (James 1:22-25).
When believers delight in and walk in obedience to the word of God, there is a natural blessing that takes place. “And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper.” If a person delights in God’s Word, they will soak it up like water and put it into practice in their lives. They will then bring forth fruit in the Lord’s timing, they will not wither or dry up spiritually, and whatever they do will prosper. The Lord told Joshua, “This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate in it day and night, that you may observe to do according to all that is written in it. For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success.” (Josh 1:8) This is a cause-and-effect relationship: Because of the work Jesus accomplished at Calvary, believers are blessed with all spiritual blessings in Christ, and by obeying the Word they put themselves in a place where they can enjoy these blessings to the fullest.
The ungodly are not like this tree planted by the rivers of water, but are like chaff driven away by the wind. The chaff is the outer shell or hull of grain, that once separated from the kernel, was thrown into the air, and the wind blows the chaff away. On the day of judgment, the ungodly will be found to have no substance or value in their works, and as a result, will not be able to stand before God. Sinners (those who have rejected Jesus Christ) will not be able to stand in the congregation of the righteous, for they have rejected the only provision for their sin in exchange for their own filthy rags. This will leave them weighed in the balances and found wanting. The Lord knows the way of the righteous; He knows those whose names have been written in the Lamb’s Book of Life, who have had their sins washed away by the blood of Jesus Christ. He also knows the ungodly who will perish. The books will be opened, they will be judged according to their works, and be thrown into the lake of fire (Rev 20:11-15).
In closing, let us consider what path we are on. If you are not a Christian, you are clearly on the path of the ungodly. You will be carried away on the day of Judgment, and cast into Hell, along with the devil and his angels. Repent and believe the Gospel! Place your faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, and trust that what he did on the cross is sufficient to pay your sin debt in full. You will then be forgiven of all your sins and receive eternal life. As believers, we have all been on the path of the ungodly at one point. We need to pray that we can quickly recognize when we begin to go astray, and then to repent as well. We need to delight in God’s word, meditate on it day and night, and obey what it says. Then we will be like the tree by the rivers of water, and we will bring forth fruit in God’s timing. We will not wither or dry up spiritually, for we have drunk from the water that Jesus said, if a man drinks, he will never thirst again. As we come to know the Scriptures, they teach us the right way to go, so that whatever we do we will prosper. How happy we will be in life, in death, and in eternity to come.